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Troy

5/22/2016

 
“I was 14 years old when I taught my Dad to read. He wanted to pass the test for his Commercial Divers License (CDL) so that he could work for just one company and not try to piece together a living from two or three jobs. He had been pushed through school because he was a good football player; he could run fast and jump high, but he couldn’t read beyond about second grade level. I don’t know this for sure, but I think he probably had dyslexia. I do know that he always felt like the system had failed him. The experience of teaching my own father to read helped me realize how difficult it was for him to be the provider for us with that kind of limitation. The good part is that after six months of tutoring, he did get his CDL and was able to earn more. He had a steady job, and our family got to enjoy comforts we hadn’t before. He was really proud of that.
 
“I’ve worked as the Adult Learning Coordinator for Literacy Mid-South for a year now, and I get to meet a lot of people and hear their stories of not being able to read. For some, their education stopped because of sick parents or because they had to drop out of school and go to work. Others were passed on from grade to grade because they weren’t trouble-makers; they were good kids or athletes. Some just got so discouraged and far behind that they gave up. There are all kinds of reasons. It’s a huge step for them to come forward. So many people have gone for decades without revealing to anyone that they can’t read. They’ve developed coping strategies to get them through, but now they want to help their children with homework or move up in their jobs, and they realize they have to be able to read. It’s challenging for adults to stick with the tutoring program because many of them have transportation issues, families to tend to, or varying work schedules, but those who are consistent and motivated can make a lot of progress in a short time. It takes about 100 hours of tutoring to move up one grade level. Currently, we have 600 adults enrolled in literacy tutoring, with more on the waiting list. We’re always looking for more tutors.”

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Troy Wiggins, Adult Learning Coordinator for Literacy Mid-South
Website:  Literacy Mid-South

Email:  [email protected]
Ph. 901-236-3348

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Kristen & Eric

5/21/2016

 
KRISTEN:  "My youth pastor introduced me to him and, even though he was basically broke, he was so much fun. I loved his sense of humor and how kind and generous he was. We had all sorts of silly, cheap, romantic dates: we'd go to free events, he'd come by on his motorcycle and take me to see the sunrise, we'd go get dollar chicken wings. After three weeks, we were inseparable. Then he got an out-of-state offer for a really good job, but he decided to stay in south Florida and take a lower-paying one so that we could keep seeing each other. We continued to date, got married, and May 22 is our 6th anniversary."

ERIC:  "We moved to Memphis last year and have just fallen in love with it. Friends who visit say they can't believe how beautiful it is here. You have to make an effort though. If you give to the city, the city will give back to you. That's what we're doing today: we're with the Smith & Nephew Dragon Boat Team raising money for St. Jude. That's what's going on with all the orange. This isn't my real hair."

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In addition to Eric's work with Smith & Nephew and Kristen's volunteer work with hospice ("She has the warmest heart," Eric declares), the couple also volunteers with Loving One by One Ministries and will participate in a medical missions trip to Uganda this summer to distribute free malaria medication to those unable to afford it. Kristen says: "We want to use our lives to help others. God has blessed us so much."
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Earlene

5/20/2016

 
“I taught at Rozelle Elementary for 23 years until I retired, and I loved those third graders. Third grade is a transition year. They’re not babies anymore, but they’re not grown either. They still want to please you. Most all of my children lived in the Glenview area. That was my neighborhood too---it still is---so if I ever had a problem with a student, I went over to their house and visited with their parents. That usually took care of it. I still have contact with a lot of my former students. In fact one of them has a carpet cleaning business, and his crew is here at my house today cleaning the carpet.”
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Earlene's former student, Antonio Futch, owns his own business, Fabulous Carpet Care:
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Earlene is a graduate of LeMoyne-Owen College.
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Kay & Larry

5/19/2016

 
Larry:  “It was December 24, we were at her house, and I had already asked her dad---which made me nervous. I wasn’t exactly afraid of him, but I had a great deal of respect for him, and I knew he loved his daughter. She and I had dated for 5 years, but we hadn’t really talked about marriage. I waited until I thought the moment was right and we were alone. After all, she might have said no, and I didn’t want an audience. [*laughs*] Then I got down on a knee and asked if she would consider being my wife. She said yes. We celebrated our 50th anniversary on May 6. It’s been a wonderful life, but you have to work at a marriage. You have to work at it every day, and both of you have to give 100%. You have to forgive and forget. She’s had to forgive me of a lot more than I have her. It helped that we had a common faith, always prayed together, and had a good church family. Of course there have been bumps in the road. Everybody has bumps. We went through job loss, raising teenagers, and years of watching our nickels and dimes. I worked for a typewriter repair business when we first started out, and I’d go through the grocery store holding a calculator while she put things in the basket and I added them. I think what I’ve always loved most about her is her sweet spirit. She is so kind, smiles all the time, and is as pretty today as she was the first time I saw her. When we were young and dating, we ate out at Pete and Sam’s a lot, so on our anniversary we went there again, this time with our children and their families.”
 
Kay:  “I would do it all over again. Absolutely. I just love him so much. We tell each other that we love each other every day. He’s so kind and thoughtful, has a good sense of humor, and was such a good father to the kids. On the morning of our 50th anniversary, he read me a poem he had written, and I have it framed now so I can see it every day. He’s my best friend, and I guess I’m his best friend too. It’s been a great ride!”

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Happy Fiftieth Anniversary
 
50 Years is a long, long time, but just a short while in my mind.
You caught my eye from the start and continues now until death we depart.
Our church was a good place to meet.  You were so cute and so very sweet.
What you saw in me, I don’t understand.  I get misty just holding your hand.
 
Some said it wouldn’t last long.  And now we have proved them all wrong.
We had some bumpy roads at times. We had to watch our nickels and dimes.
I see our marriage in three parts together.  Each one better than the other.
From when there was just the two of us.  Now to go anywhere, we need a bus.
           
We took some time to learn one another and build our love and faith together
We decided to add to our family.  Two sons brought joy to you and me.
Now they are married with families. With children building memories.
They call us Mimi and Pop.   Our family, like a pedestal, we put on top.
 
You are still the apple of my eye.  I always watch you as you walk by.
I am thankful for you every day.  The Lord has blessed me in every way.
I love you more after 50 years.  We have shared some laughs and even tears.

Thank you for being my wife. You have made me have a wonderful life.
How much do I love you, let me be exact.
I love you to the moon and back!

 
By Larry Arick – May 6, 2016


"Our song has always been 'Misty' by Johnny Mathis," says Larry.
Larry is Director of Advancement at Harding School of Theology. Kay is the Resident Services Coordinator at Kirby Pines Retirement Community.
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Javiera

5/18/2016

 
“I have degrees in philosophy and journalism from my university in Chile, and now I'm graduating with a Master's in Spanish from the University of Memphis. I had planned to start a PhD later this year, but because I’m expecting a baby now, my plans have changed. Planning is important, but you have to be flexible and be willing to adjust to whatever happens in life. If you insist that your plans must work out a certain way, you will be continually disappointed and frustrated. Don’t hold on so tightly that you cannot adjust. You may have to change directions, but it will work out. Life is smart; it will hand you what you are ready for. Accept those things and continue to grow. Life is about learning. You never graduate from that.”
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Felicia & Patrick

5/17/2016

 
"Are you graduating today too?"

"No! I'm not tall enough to be in this school! But when I get big I'm going to be in middle school.  Then I'm going to be in high school. And then I'm going to go to college HERE! I'm going to be a police when I grow up. My daddy teaches people to be a police!"

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Felicia with dad Professor Patrick Bamwine, Sociology and Criminal Justice, LeMoyne-Owen College.
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5/16/2016

 
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Jeremy

5/16/2016

 
"I'll be teaching history at Airways Middle School this fall. It doesn't seem like it's been that long since I graduated from high school. Now I'm graduating from college and reaching back to teach the next generation!"
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Dareleane

5/16/2016

 
"I'm graduating with a degree in Business Administration and planning to work 6 more years before I retire. I'm setting an example for my grandchildren. I want them to know that higher education is an asset, that they cannot take the minimal road to anywhere."
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Iesha

5/15/2016

 
"It's been a rough 4 years, but tonight is the Lantern Ceremony and tomorrow is Graduation. I can't believe it's finally here. I'm almost speechless."
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